Life Hack 1.4

It came earlier than expected, right?

Don’t do that “love thing.”

Late-night calls.

Endless texting.

Hours of emotional conversations with the opposite sex.

Don’t. Please don’t.

Get married first, then you’re free.

Of course, Islam prohibits it and that alone is enough reason.

As Allah said

Al-Isra' 17:32

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَٰحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًا

(And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Fahishah (immoral sin) meaning a major sin,

But let me share my personal perspective too:

If you’re someone like me , someone who gets attached easily and loves to connect deeply on an emotional level , then spending hours talking to someone about marriage before it actually happens can leave a scar.

And if, by chance, it doesn’t lead to marriage…

I promise you, you will suffer.

You might not recover for a long time.

Or you might find yourself stuck in a cycle, jumping into other relationships to fill that space in your heart… and in the process, slowly losing your self‑esteem and productivity.

So the 💡 Life Hack:

Don’t do those deep connection things until you marry.

It’s okay to like things about them.

It’s okay to imagine yourself falling in love with them when you marry them.

But protect your heart until then.

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